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The Ref (1994): Cast, Ratings, Box Office & Plot

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The Ref is a 1994 comedy drama directed by Ted Demme, starring Kevin Spacey, Christine Baranski and Robert J. Steinmiller Jr.. It runs 1 hour 37 minutes and earned $11.4 million worldwide. Critics gave it 59 on Metacritic.

worldwide gross
$11.4M
Metascore
59
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The Ref (1994) movie poster
Released
Runtime
1h 37m (97 min)
Director
Ted Demme
Genres
Drama , Comedy , Crime
Original language
English
After the credits
No No extra scene
The story

What Is The Ref About?

The premise of The Ref without spoilers. The whole story is in the plot summary further down.

A seasoned burglar’s meticulously planned heist is thrown into chaos when he’s forced to take refuge in the home of a constantly arguing couple living in suburban Connecticut. The unlikely trio finds themselves in a tense standoff, leading to a hilarious and unexpectedly touching story about family, relationships, and the possibility of second chances. Their lives become unexpectedly intertwined as they navigate a chaotic situation.

The Ref Themes & Keywords

· 50 tags
  • christmas
  • dysfunctional family
  • marriage counselor
  • extramarital affair
  • unhappy marriage
  • marital crisis
  • thief
  • hostage
  • husband wife conflict
  • dark comedy
  • outburst
  • plan gone wrong
+38 more
  • teenage boy
  • home invasion
  • mother in law daughter in law relationship
  • father son relationship
  • bound and gagged
  • carjacking
  • dysfunctional marriage
  • dinner guest
  • marital reconciliation
  • selfishness
  • connecticut
  • rottweiler
  • robbery
  • stockholm syndrome
  • police chief
  • mother son relationship
  • military school
  • mansion
  • manhunt
  • ineptitude
  • husband wife relationship
  • christmas eve
  • career criminal
  • breaking and entering
  • argument
  • farce
  • christmas movie
  • passive aggressive behavior
  • adulterous wife
  • safe
  • dog
  • bitten by a dog
  • police station
  • theft
  • small town
  • boy
  • lie
  • painting
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Cast & crew

The Ref Cast

Kevin Spacey leads the cast, with Christine Baranski and Robert J. Steinmiller Jr.. Directed by Ted Demme; 10 actors are credited in all.

From the director

More from Ted Demme

More films directed by Ted Demme, best-rated first: A Decade Under the Influence, Monument Ave., Beautiful Girls and Life.

Full filmography
Ratings

The Ref Reviews & Ratings

Critics gave The Ref 59 on Metacritic.

Plot

The Ref Plot Summary

What happens in The Ref from start to finish, spoilers included, with a timeline of 15 key events. The opening is below; the full summary is a 4-minute read.

Spoilers ahead

In the charming town of Connecticut, where delicate snowflakes fluttered on Christmas Eve, Dr. Wong was conducting a marriage counseling session that peeled back the layers of the seemingly perfect Chasseur family. Lloyd (Kevin Spacey) and Caroline (Christine Baranski) found themselves entrenched in a bitter conflict, driven by Caroline’s recent infidelity, which ignited a firestorm of unresolved issues in their 15-year marriage. Their son, Jesse (portrayed by Robert J. Steinmiller Jr.), observed from a distance, his own struggles hidden beneath a facade of detachment.

Full summary

The whole story of The Ref, scene by scene

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Box office

The Ref Box Office

The Ref grossed $11.4 million worldwide.

1994 box office

Worldwide gross

$11.4M

US & Canada
$11.4M
Videos

The Ref Trailers & Videos

The trailer of The Ref.

The Ref (1994) Fan Trailer
Quiz

How Well Do You Know The Ref?

10 questions about the story, each with a hint if you get stuck. Pick an answer to see whether you were right.

Question 1 of 10

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What act of infidelity strains Lloyd and Caroline's marriage?

Cars

Cars in The Ref

10 cars on screen, including the 1990 Ford LTD Crown Victoria and the 1993 Jeep Grand Cherokee.

All 10 cars
  • 1990 Ford LTD Crown Victoria in The Ref 1990 Ford LTD Crown Victoria Important role
  • 1993 Jeep Grand Cherokee in The Ref 1993 Jeep Grand Cherokee Important role
  • 1979 Chevrolet Caprice Classic in The Ref 1979 Chevrolet Caprice Classic Minor role
  • 1990 Lincoln Town Car Stretched Limousine in The Ref 1990 Lincoln Town Car Stretched Limousine Minor role
Details

The Ref Also Known As

19 alternative titles, including “Hostile Hostages” and “Esto (no) es un secuestro”.

Also known as
  • Hostile Hostages
  • Esto (no) es un secuestro
  • O Árbitro
  • El Árbitro
  • No Panic - Gute Geiseln sind selten
  • Осторожно, заложник
  • C'eravamo tanto odiati
  • Egy híján túsz
  • Nezvaný host
  • חטופים שכאלה
  • Tel est pris qui croyait prendre
  • Рефері
+7 more
  • Гадни заложници
  • Spec
  • 通天大盗
  • Bossen
  • Opasni taoci
  • 사랑의 금고털이
  • Absolut gisslan

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FAQ

The Ref FAQ: Cast, Box Office & Runtime

Runtime, release date, director, cast, box office, ratings and post-credit scenes of The Ref, each answered in a sentence.

How long is The Ref?

The Ref runs 1 hour 37 minutes (97 minutes).

When was The Ref released?

The Ref was released on March 11, 1994.

Who directed The Ref?

The Ref was directed by Ted Demme.

More films by Ted Demme

Who is in the cast of The Ref?

The Ref stars Kevin Spacey, Christine Baranski and Robert J. Steinmiller Jr., among 10 credited actors.

How much did The Ref make at the box office?

The Ref grossed $11.4 million worldwide.

How is The Ref rated?

The Ref has 59 on Metacritic and 66% on TMDB.

Does The Ref have a post-credit scene?

No. The Ref has no extra scene during or after the credits.

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