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How to Talk to Girls at Parties (2018): Cast, Ratings & Box Office

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How to Talk to Girls at Parties is a 2018 sci-fi comedy directed by John Cameron Mitchell, starring Alex Sharp as Enn, Elle Fanning and Joanna Scanlan. It runs 1 hour 42 minutes and earned $385,733 worldwide. Critics gave it 47% on Rotten Tomatoes and 50 on Metacritic, and IMDb users rate it 5.7/10.

IMDb rating
5.7/10
Rotten Tomatoes
47%
worldwide gross
$385.7K
Echo Score
56
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How to Talk to Girls at Parties (2018) movie poster
Released
Runtime
1h 42m (102 min)
Genres
Sci-Fi , Comedy , Romance , Music
Original language
English
Studio
A24
After the credits
No No extra scene
The story

What Is How to Talk to Girls at Parties About?

The premise of How to Talk to Girls at Parties without spoilers. The whole story is in the plot summary further down.

In 1977 suburban London, shy teenager Enn discovers an otherworldly gathering during a punk rock party. He falls for Zan, a rebellious alien, and together they explore the city's underground music scene. Their burgeoning romance unexpectedly triggers a conflict between the punk subculture and the alien visitors, testing their love and pushing them to confront extraordinary challenges.

How to Talk to Girls at Parties Themes & Keywords

· 50 tags
  • punk rock
  • alien
  • punk teenager
  • human alien relationship
  • mother son relationship
  • cannibals
  • love
  • father son relationship
  • latex catsuit
  • punk
  • punk girl
  • surrealism
+38 more
  • alien girl
  • psychedelic
  • treehouse
  • fanzine
  • alien symbol
  • single mother
  • sex with alien
  • ring
  • drawing
  • comic book author
  • book signing
  • human alien love
  • alien disguised as a human
  • alien in human form
  • teenage boy
  • forbidden love
  • year 1977
  • singing
  • party
  • female humanoid alien
  • human alien kiss
  • pregnant alien
  • male singer
  • punk band
  • pinching nipple
  • finger ring
  • tomato
  • person splitting into two
  • head in mouth
  • waking up from a nightmare
  • picking tomatoes
  • alien sex
  • kiss
  • eating
  • exit
  • pregnancy
  • synod
  • colony
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Cast & crew

How to Talk to Girls at Parties Cast & Characters

Alex Sharp leads the cast as Enn, with Elle Fanning as Zan and Joanna Scanlan as Marion, Enn's Mum. Directed by John Cameron Mitchell; 13 actors are credited in all.

Also Starring in How to Talk to Girls at Parties

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From the director

More from John Cameron Mitchell

More films directed by John Cameron Mitchell, best-rated first: Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Rabbit Hole, Shortbus and Lady Grey London.

Full filmography
Ratings

How to Talk to Girls at Parties Reviews & Ratings

Critics gave How to Talk to Girls at Parties 47% on Rotten Tomatoes and 50 on Metacritic, and IMDb users rate it 5.7/10. Our Echo Score gives it 56/100, strongest in sensory experience (75) and weakest in story & flow (35).

56 /100

How to Talk to Girls at Parties Echo Score Breakdown

The film’s overall impact is hampered by a notable tension between its ambitious stylistic choices and its uneven narrative execution. While the production’s bold visual palette and spirited punk ethos earn frequent praise, many observers point to a disjointed plot and sporadic pacing that undercut emotional engagement. Standout elements include Elle Fanning’s intriguing presence and Sandy Powell’s inventive costume design, yet these strengths cannot fully compensate for the story’s lack of cohesion. Overall, the result is a visually striking but narratively fragmented experience.

Our own 0–100 rating, built from five aspects: art, character, story, the sensory experience and how well a film rewatches.

  • Art & Craft 70

    The film’s art and craft deliver a vivid visual identity despite sporadic directorial control. Elements such as Sandy Powell’s eclectic costume designs and the punk-inspired production design receive consistent acclaim for their color and inventiveness. Measured editing choices support moments of kinetic energy, though transitions sometimes feel abrupt. In net, the cinematography and design establish a memorable aesthetic even as the direction wavers.

  • Character & Emotion 55

    In terms of character and emotion, performances are a mixed asset. Elle Fanning’s winsome portrayal and Nicole Kidman’s assured presence bring charisma to the screen, while Alex Sharp’s awkward charm adds gentle humor. However, many viewers describe limited emotional resonance, citing shallow character development and a lack of connection. Overall, the acting quality is solid but cannot fully overcome the story’s emotional distance.

  • Story & Flow 35

    The narrative coherence is the aspect most frequently criticized. Reviewers note that the plot’s melding of punk culture with alien mythology results in a confused structure and uneven pacing. Attempts at thematic exploration of freedom and authority are overshadowed by sci-fi elements that feel underexplained. In conclusion, the story’s scattershot execution undermines engagement and leaves the overall arc feeling disjointed.

  • Sensory Experience 75

    The sensory experience is one of the film’s strongest dimensions. A driving punk soundtrack and dynamic sound design underscore the spirited tone, while Sandy Powell’s flamboyant costumes and vibrant color palette create a bold visual synergy. Occasional tonal shifts momentarily lessen immersion, but the overall cohesion of music, sound, and visuals maintains an engaging atmosphere. Thus, the sensory elements succeed in delivering a lively audiovisual impact.

  • Rewatch Factor 45

    The rewatch factor remains limited by the film’s structural incoherence. While some viewers anticipate cult appeal due to its eccentric style, the confusing plot and uneven pacing diminish enjoyment on subsequent viewings. Moments of visual flair and spirited performances retain occasional interest, but these are insufficient to sustain replay value. In sum, the film’s scattered execution hinders its lasting appeal despite flashes of originality.

Plot

How to Talk to Girls at Parties Plot Summary

What happens in How to Talk to Girls at Parties from start to finish, spoilers included, with a timeline of 13 key events. The opening is below; the full summary is a 3-minute read.

Spoilers ahead

Young Enn, portrayed by Alex Sharp, alongside his close friends, stumbles upon a surreal gathering of teenagers who aren’t from this world. These intergalactic visitors have come to Earth to partake in an enigmatic rite of passage, but this encounter ignites a wild crush in Enn’s heart for Zan, played by Elle Fanning. Zan is not just beautiful; she’s a spirited and rebellious alien, and her fascination with Enn leads them both on a vibrant escapade through the dynamic punk rock landscape of 1970s London. Their unexpected connection seemingly triggers an epic showdown between the earthbound punks and their extraterrestrial counterparts.

Full summary

The whole story of How to Talk to Girls at Parties, scene by scene

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Box office

How to Talk to Girls at Parties Box Office

How to Talk to Girls at Parties grossed $385,733 worldwide. $84,809 came from the US and Canada and $300,924 (78%) from the rest of the world.

2018 box office

Worldwide gross

$385.7K

US & Canada
$84.8K
International
$300.9K
US & Canada 22% Rest of the world 78%
Videos

How to Talk to Girls at Parties Trailers & Videos

6 videos: 2 trailers, 1 teaser, 2 clips and 1 featurette.

All 6 videos
Official Trailer
  • Trailer Classic Trailer
  • Teaser TV Spot
  • Clip Elle Fanning is an alien in How To Talk To Girls At Parties
  • Clip Do More Punk to Me - Official Clip
Quiz

How Well Do You Know How to Talk to Girls at Parties?

10 questions about the story, each with a hint if you get stuck. Pick an answer to see whether you were right.

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Cars

Cars in How to Talk to Girls at Parties

7 cars on screen, including the 1978 Dodge Spacevan and the 1978 Fiat 132.

All 7 cars
  • 1978 Dodge Spacevan in How to Talk to Girls at Parties 1978 Dodge Spacevan Background role
  • 1978 Fiat 132 in How to Talk to Girls at Parties 1978 Fiat 132 Background role
  • 1982 Freight Rover Sherpa in How to Talk to Girls at Parties 1982 Freight Rover Sherpa Background role
  • 1972 Morris Marina MkI in How to Talk to Girls at Parties 1972 Morris Marina MkI Background role
Details

How to Talk to Girls at Parties Also Known As

20 alternative titles, including “Cómo enamorar a una chica punk” and “La ragazza del punk innamorato”.

Also known as
  • Cómo enamorar a una chica punk
  • La ragazza del punk innamorato
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  • Jak balit holky na mejdanech
  • Як спілкуватися з дівчатами на вечірках
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FAQ

How to Talk to Girls at Parties FAQ: Cast & Box Office

Runtime, release date, director, cast, box office, ratings and post-credit scenes of How to Talk to Girls at Parties, each answered in a sentence.

How long is How to Talk to Girls at Parties?

How to Talk to Girls at Parties runs 1 hour 42 minutes (102 minutes).

When was How to Talk to Girls at Parties released?

How to Talk to Girls at Parties was released on May 25, 2018.

Who directed How to Talk to Girls at Parties?

How to Talk to Girls at Parties was directed by John Cameron Mitchell.

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Who is in the cast of How to Talk to Girls at Parties?

How to Talk to Girls at Parties stars Alex Sharp as Enn, Elle Fanning as Zan and Joanna Scanlan as Marion, Enn's Mum, among 13 credited actors.

How much did How to Talk to Girls at Parties make at the box office?

How to Talk to Girls at Parties grossed $385,733 worldwide ($84,809 domestic, $300,924 international).

How is How to Talk to Girls at Parties rated?

How to Talk to Girls at Parties has 5.7/10 on IMDb, 47% on Rotten Tomatoes, 50 on Metacritic and 60% on TMDB.

Does How to Talk to Girls at Parties have a post-credit scene?

No. How to Talk to Girls at Parties has no extra scene during or after the credits.

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