Splendor in the Grass 1981

In 1927-1928 Kansas, amid the oil boom that makes landowners suddenly wealthy, two high school sweethearts navigate the risky terrain of first love and growing up: Deanie Loomis [Melissa Gilbert] and Bud Stamper [Cyril O’Reilly]. Deanie is a sweet, idealistic girl whose gentle dreams of marriage stand in sharp contrast to the gritty realities of her world, where her family runs a small general store and maintains a comfortable middle-class life with a few oil investments. Bud, by contrast, is athletic and handsome, the heir to a fortune built on pumping oil on their ranch, and his father pressure-tests him with expectations to succeed academically and socially.

From the start, Deanie’s mother keeps a watchful eye, steering her daughter toward conventional behavior and “being good” in the eyes of society. Bud, though deeply affectionate, wrestles with his own appetite and impulse, and the story follows how those impulses collide with the heavy weight of family duty and future prospects. The couple’s bond is real, but it is constantly tested by the expectations surrounding them and the age-old tension between desire and duty.

A pivotal moment arrives on New Year’s Eve 1928, when a messy, impulsive encounter shatters Deanie’s sense of security and depth of feeling. Bud, who also carries the burden of his patriarchal father’s ambitions, struggles to reconcile his duty to his family with his own yearnings. After this fracture, Bud believes Deanie might be open to dating others, a decision that unsettles her and accelerates a downward spiral in her mood and sense of self. The story then shifts to Bud’s point of view as he attempts to assert himself and chart a course that feels true to him, even as the walls around him tighten.

Bud seeks a life beyond Kansas by heading to Yale, where his father hopes a degree will secure his place in a world of power and prestige. At Yale, Bud flunks every class, revealing a different kind of struggle—one not about intellect but about purpose and safety within a demanding system. There, he forms a tentative bond with a waitress, Angelina [Toni Kalem], a connection that underscores the widening gulf between his early dream of romance with Deanie and the harsher, more complicated reality of adulthood. His father returns, attempting to bend the dean to his will and keep Bud on a path toward Yale’s credentialed future, even as the family fortune feels precarious in a market-centric crisis. A dramatic turn comes when news arrives that the market is collapsing while Bud’s father remains stubborn, ultimately leading to his ruin and a fatal jump from a hotel window. With that blow, Bud returns home, stripped of his former pretensions and the safety net his father tried to provide.

Back at the institution, Deanie devotes years to healing and breaking free from the quiet torment that defined her adolescence. She endures strict treatment, the guidance of doctors, and a slow, painful journey toward self-understanding. During this period, she encounters a physician who becomes a significant figure in her life, Dr. Judd [Nicholas Pryor], and—though she grows stronger—she still longs for Bud, hoping to reconnect when the time feels right. The emotional landscape of her rehabilitation is intimate, patient, and deeply human, with her own resilience guiding the way forward.

When Deanie is finally well enough to return home—after more than two years and a half—theirs is a world that has moved on in unexpected ways. She and friends drive out to Bud’s ranch, only to discover that Bud has chosen a different life. He has brought Angelina [Toni Kalem], the Yale connection she once watched from afar, into his fold, and together they have started a family and embraced a lifestyle far humbler than Bud’s childhood wealth suggested. Deanie meets his family and comes to terms with the divergence of their paths. She confirms that she intends to marry the man she met in treatment, recognizing that love and companionship can take unpredictable forms. Bud, meanwhile, seems content with the life he has chosen—rooted in the values he always wanted, even if they conflict with the fairy-tale promise of their high school romance.

The film unfolds as a coming-of-age drama that quietly mirrors the arc of a life lived in the shadow of oil, money, and family expectation. It explores how young people navigate memory, ambition, and a sense of self as they move from the innocence of adolescence into the more complicated, clarifying years of adulthood. The story also invites a literary echo, referencing Wordsworth’s Ode: Intimations of Immortality from Recollections of Early Childhood, underscoring the tension between the remembered beauty of youth and the hard-won clarity of a life fully faced.

Throughout, the narrative remains keenly observant about how society, economy, and personal choice shape the characters’ journeys. It is a story about the costs of growing up too soon and the resilience required to define one’s own path when the old anchors—wealth, prestige, and parental expectations—begin to slip away. The result is a nuanced, patient meditation on fate, memory, and the imperfect but enduring pursuit of happiness, where both Deanie and Bud must learn what it means to surrender not to defeat, but to a more honest view of who they are and what they want from life.