Roommates 1994

In 1963 Pittsburgh, a cantankerous Polish-American baker named Rocky Holzcek stands firm on a deeply felt family creed: “Family takes care of family!” At 77 years old, Rocky shocks his relatives by deciding to adopt his young grandson Michael after the boy’s parents pass away, despite everyone warning that Rocky is far too old to take on such a responsibility. The two of them make a home in Rocky’s apartment, where the daily ritual of card games becomes a quiet anchor in their new life. Rocky’s habit of meticulously arranging his hand, one card at a time, often tests Michael’s patience and his own sense of tempo, but it also becomes a shared rhythm that bonds them through the early years.

Fast-forward about twenty years, and Michael has carved out a demanding career as a medical intern in Columbus. When illness or circumstance sweeps through Rocky’s life, fate conspires to pull him back into Michael’s orbit. Rocky, now more settled into his stubborn resilience than ever, is forced to leave his own apartment after an eviction, and he returns to live with Michael. In a college history class, Rocky sheds a stubborn chip on his shoulder by telling the truth as he sees it about the “S” in Harry S Truman’s name—claiming the letter stands for something, despite the professor’s insistence that it does not. This moment underscores Rocky’s stubborn insistence on personal memory over formal authority and his belief that history, like family, is something you defend with conviction.

Although the crusty elder continues to butt heads with Michael’s life, he does find common ground with Michael’s college roommates, who are Chinese. The shared card games persist, with Rocky’s careful timing of his hand still a source of quiet amusement and occasional irritation. The evolving household also includes Beth, Michael’s girlfriend at the time, who among others becomes part of their circle and life. Rocky’s initial skepticism about Beth softens over time as she becomes a steady, integral presence in the family. Eventually, Michael and Beth marry, and they relocate to Pittsburgh so that Michael can begin his medical residency while Rocky remains a constant, if sometimes stubborn, presence in their lives. Rocky continues working as a baker, a livelihood that keeps him connected to his past and to the everyday joys that stitching a family together requires.

An illness casts Rocky’s health into sharper relief, and he must move back to Pittsburgh to live with Michael and Beth—and he grows warmer toward Beth in the process. The household dynamic broadens to include the couple’s life and responsibilities, and Rocky remains a steady, if deliberate, mentor to his grandchildren. Cards remain a shared pleasure, and Beth, though many years younger than Rocky, is welcomed into the routine; she even holds her place in the game, taking her turn with a patient, practiced hand that draws occasional playful comparisons to Rocky himself.

Seven years pass, and Rocky is still a fixed, benevolent force in a home that has grown to include two children. Michael has built a significant medical career, and the family has settled into a rhythm that seems to honor Rocky’s old motto: family care endures through all upheavals. Then tragedy strikes when Beth is killed in an automobile accident, tearing a new hole in the family fabric. Rocky once again steps in to support his grandson in a moment of profound loss, and Beth’s mother arrives with a demand to take the children. Michael, initially swayed by the pressure, confronts the reality of his obligations. Rocky delivers a quiet but forceful reminder of their shared creed, declaring, “Family takes care of family.” Michael, inspired by Rocky’s unwavering stance, refuses to surrender the children to Beth’s mother, and the two of them decisively bring the kids into their home, ending the discussion with a firm, “End of discussion!”

The film closes in a hospital room where Rocky lies somewhat frail but mentally alert, and Michael, along with the grandchildren, gathers to celebrate what would become Rocky’s 107th birthday. The mood is a blend of tenderness and gravity as Michael reads the room and notices Rocky’s strength fading. He pretends not to see the dwindling energy, flipping through a newspaper and, in a bittersweet moment, stumbles upon a want ad for a Chinese bakery—an echo of Rocky’s college days and the friends who stood by him. Michael looks to Rocky and asks, almost as a final check, “You know anything about this?” Rocky offers a faint, comforting smile, then grows weaker. Michael recognizes the unspoken truth and, with quiet courage, tells him it’s okay to go. Rocky passes away peacefully, knowing his grandson is well, and that he has given all the care he possibly could.

Throughout the years, the film unfolds as a testament to intergenerational love and duty, centering on a man who believes deeply in the power of family to weather hardship. The story balances humor and heartbreak, showing how rituals—like card games that require patience, or the stubborn insistence on doing what’s right for the family—can sustain people when life becomes heavy with loss. It paints a portrait of resilience, loyalty, and the quiet, enduring conviction that the responsibilities we inherit from those who came before us can become the very foundations of a life well lived.