Same Kind of Different as Me 2017

Ron Hall, a savvy art dealer, finds himself at the humble residence of Julio, a man whose life has taken a dramatic turn due to a significant event. Julio graciously allows Ron to capture his extraordinary story in a book, which leads to an exploration of their intertwined lives.

Two years prior, Ron revealed to his wife, Debbie, that he had been unfaithful, leaving her in a whirlwind of emotions. Although devastated, she offered Ron a chance to redeem himself by committing to assist those in need at a local homeless shelter. Initially reluctant and desperate to escape this new obligation, Ron is swayed by Debbie’s insistence to befriend a troubled member of the community named Denver.

As Ron and Debbie cultivate their relationship with Denver, they discover the layers beneath his tough exterior, revealing a man with a rich history. They invite him into their home, where he shares heartbreaking tales from his childhood, including the loss of his grandmother in a devastating fire. Denver’s harsh experiences on a plantation, marked by the violence of the KKK due to his friendships with white people, have left profound scars that resonate with him deeply.

Their bond intensifies as Ron and Debbie learn of Denver’s turbulent past, encompassing time spent in jail and the harsh realities of violence he faced. Despite his troubled background, they extend forgiveness to him, which he embraces with genuine gratitude. As tension builds, Debbie’s health begins to decline, leading her to confide in her family about her terminal diagnosis.

As the holiday season approaches, Ron warmly invites Denver to celebrate with them, creating an atmosphere filled with love and togetherness. However, this joyful occasion is marred by the unexpected arrival of Earl, Ron’s estranged father, who brings with him a toxic mix of harsh criticism and disdain that eventually drives a wedge between father and son. This upheaval resonates painfully with Denver, who has longed for paternal support and guidance.

In her final days, Debbie is surrounded by those she loves, imparting her wisdom as she prepares for her burial. In a touching moment, both Ron and Denver dance with Debbie, savoring the time they have left together. Debbie’s passing leaves a deep void, yet her life stands as a testament to the transformative influence of love and connection.

As Ron’s grief begins to fade, he consciously decides to distanced from Denver, closing a chapter filled with poignant memories. Fast-forward to the present, Ron leaves Julio’s home, his heart leading him back towards Denver. Their reunion is heartwarming, brimming with nostalgia and laughter as they recall their shared experiences.

Denver, acting as a wise mentor, encourages Ron to visit Earl, who has undergone a remarkable transformation, emerging as a renewed spirit. At his parents’ house, Ron is taken aback to find Earl, now at peace and reinvigorated, has also reconnected with Tommye, who expresses her heartfelt appreciation.

In a reflective camping trip near Debbie’s resting place, Ron and Denver stroll down memory lane, sharing cherished moments and contemplating the challenges that have molded their lives. The serene night wraps around them as they find comfort in each other’s presence.

As the film concludes, viewers see Ron completing his book with Denver’s invaluable support, embarking on an inspiring journey across the country to share their story and raise critical funds for shelters that provide refuge to those in need.