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Love Me Instead (2021): Cast, Ratings & Plot

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Love Me Instead is a 2021 drama directed by Mehmet Ada Öztekin, starring Sarp Akkaya as Musa, Ercan Kesal and Aleyna Özgeçen. It runs 2 hours 4 minutes. Its Echo Score is 80/100.

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Love Me Instead (2021) movie poster
Released
Runtime
2h 4m (124 min)
Genre
Drama
Original language
Turkish
After the credits
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The story

What Is Love Me Instead About?

The premise of Love Me Instead without spoilers. The whole story is in the plot summary further down.

Accompanied by a ward, a prisoner travels to his hometown to reconnect with his daughter and make amends, but a tragic truth mars his journey.

Love Me Instead Themes & Keywords

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  • male nudity
  • male rear nudity
  • bare back
  • prison guard
  • prisoner
  • shooting
  • mass shooting
  • lie
  • liar
  • violent man
  • daughter
  • truth
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Cast & crew

Love Me Instead Cast & Characters

Sarp Akkaya leads the cast as Musa, with Ercan Kesal as Sedat and Aleyna Özgeçen as Yonca / Leyla. Directed by Mehmet Ada Öztekin; 15 actors are credited in all.

From the director

More from Mehmet Ada Öztekin

More films directed by Mehmet Ada Öztekin, best-rated first: Miracle in Cell No. 7, Atatürk II 1881 – 1919, Atatürk 1881 - 1919 and Godspeed.

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Ratings

Love Me Instead Reviews & Ratings

Our Echo Score gives it 80/100, strongest in character & emotion (86) and weakest in story & flow (72).

80 /100

Love Me Instead Echo Score Breakdown

Love Me Instead delivers a resonant dramatic experience that is anchored by strong performances and a gritty depiction of a marginalized community. While the narrative pacing is uneven and the moral premise feels dated to some viewers, the film's visual authenticity and evocative soundtrack sustain audience engagement. The overall impression is a solid, emotionally affecting drama that rewards thoughtful viewing despite its structural flaws.

Our own 0–100 rating, built from five aspects: art, character, story, the sensory experience and how well a film rewatches.

  • Art & Craft 78

    In terms of direction and visual craftsmanship, the film shows commendable competence. Reviewers note the director's effective handling of atmosphere and the cinematography's solid execution, highlighting the realistic portrayal of the neighborhood. Some criticism centers on pacing and occasional moral ambiguity, yet the production design and editing remain functional. Consequently, the artistic execution is assessed as moderately strong.

  • Character & Emotion 86

    When it comes to character and emotional depth, the acting receives unanimous praise. Critics describe the performances as superb, with particular acclaim for Sarp Akkaya and supporting cast, noting nuanced portrayals that convey grief and resilience. A minority mention underdeveloped characters, but the overall sentiment emphasizes powerful, believable portrayals that anchor the film's emotional core, resulting in a high character score.

  • Story & Flow 72

    The story's structure elicits mixed reactions. Several reviewers appreciate the layered plot and the eventual resolution that blends hope with sorrow, while others criticize a slow start, confusing twists, and a moral framework that feels antiquated. The pacing is described as deliberate yet occasionally dragging, leading to a narrative that is engaging for some but perceived as uneven for others, yielding a moderate story rating.

  • Sensory Experience 80

    Sensory elements, including the soundtrack and sound design, receive consistent positive feedback. Observations highlight the effective use of background guitar, atmospheric soundscapes, and visual detail that enhance the setting's bleakness. The music is described as fitting and the picture quality as satisfactory, supporting the film's immersive quality. Minor notes on length do not detract from the overall sensory appeal, resulting in a strong score.

  • Rewatch Factor 75

    Rewatch value is reinforced by the film's lingering emotional impact and thematic depth. Viewers report lingering thoughts after completion and recommend the film for its thoughtful engagement. While some find the narrative conclusion unsatisfying, the majority indicate a desire to revisit the nuanced performances and setting. This combination of lasting impression and recommendation translates into a solid rewatch factor.

Plot

Love Me Instead Plot Summary

What happens in Love Me Instead from start to finish, spoilers included, with a timeline of 13 key events. The opening is below; the full summary is a 3-minute read.

Spoilers ahead

After 14 years behind bars, Musa is granted a rare, single-day parole to reunite with his daughter before he must return to finish the last three years of his sentence. A prison guard named Sedat is assigned to accompany him on this emotional journey, ensuring he returns on time and safely escorts him back to life behind bars. The daughter he longs to see is Yonca, who is now under the care of his old friend Nuriye, a woman whose presence hints at a complicated past that Musa is only just beginning to face.

Full summary

The whole story of Love Me Instead, scene by scene

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Quiz

How Well Do You Know Love Me Instead?

10 questions about the story, each with a hint if you get stuck. Pick an answer to see whether you were right.

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Who is the protagonist sentenced to prison for 14 years?

Details

Love Me Instead Also Known As

15 alternative titles, including “Meine Tochter” and “Inconditionnel”.

Also known as
  • Meine Tochter
  • Inconditionnel
  • Ama-me
  • 러브 미 인스테드
  • Měj mě taky rád
  • Quiéreme igualmente
  • 父情难却
  • Ojcowska miłość
  • Očeva ljubav
  • Любов на заміну
  • אהבה של אבא
  • Αγάπα Εμένα αντί για Εκείνη
+3 more
  • Отцовская любовь
  • Inkább engem szeress
  • Tình Yêu Của Cha

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FAQ

Love Me Instead FAQ: Cast, Runtime & Release Date

Runtime, release date, director, cast, post-credit scenes and language of Love Me Instead, each answered in a sentence.

How long is Love Me Instead?

Love Me Instead runs 2 hours 4 minutes (124 minutes).

When was Love Me Instead released?

Love Me Instead was released on November 19, 2021.

Who directed Love Me Instead?

Love Me Instead was directed by Mehmet Ada Öztekin.

More films by Mehmet Ada Öztekin

Who is in the cast of Love Me Instead?

Love Me Instead stars Sarp Akkaya as Musa, Ercan Kesal as Sedat and Aleyna Özgeçen as Yonca / Leyla, among 15 credited actors.

Does Love Me Instead have a post-credit scene?

No. Love Me Instead has no extra scene during or after the credits.

What language is Love Me Instead in?

The original language of Love Me Instead is Turkish.

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