Bekikang: Ang Nanay Kong Beki 2013

Bekikang, Joey Paras, also known as Beki, leads a warm, humorous circle of friends as they navigate love, identity, and family in a close-knit Filipino community. This film, inspired by the life of the late director Wenn Deramas, blends lighthearted comedy with tender, observant drama to reveal stories of resilience, self-acceptance, and the enduring power of chosen family. The troupe runs a street-side balut business, turning everyday hustle into moments of connection and care for the people they love.

One day, a handsome newcomer named Fortunato, Tom Rodriguez, arrives and is being bullied. Beki doesn’t hesitate to step in and defend him, sparking an unexpected connection between the two men. As their bond deepens, Fortunato’s attention shifts toward Natalie, Madeleine Humphries, a charming waitress at a restaurant Beki frequents. The evolving dynamic between Fortunato and Natalie becomes a focal point, while Beki confronts his own emerging feelings for Fortunato and the jealousy that comes with them.

Natalie’s pregnancy alters the course of their lives. The relationship between Fortunato and Natalie strains and ultimately dissolves when Fortunato decides to seek work abroad. Left to navigate the new reality, Beki steps up to care for the unborn child, a decision that tests his courage and confronts questions about fatherhood, loyalty, and love. After some contemplation, he embraces the child as his own, even though the child is not biologically his, demonstrating a deep sense of responsibility and devotion to family.

Facing pressure from his own family who disapprove of his nontraditional path, Beki chooses to leave home and move in with his supportive friends. Together, the three gay men—Beki and his two close companions—create a stable, nurturing home for the child, showing that family can be built from love, commitment, and mutual respect rather than conformity. Their bond is tested by social stigma, financial strain, and the demands of parenting, yet they persevere with humor, patience, and a shared sense of purpose.

The return of Fortunato and Natalie to reclaim their child brings a custody battle into the foreground. As the legal and emotional stakes rise, the former lovers are forced to confront their history and their responsibilities. The couple eventually reunites with the intention of raising the child together, but the arrangement now sits against the backdrop of a household built by Beki and his friends. The future of this unconventional family remains uncertain, inviting viewers to consider what true family means when love, friendship, and responsibility intersect.

Throughout, the film weaves moments of laughter with quiet, heartfelt scenes that explore belonging, identity, and the meaning of home. It celebrates resilience in the face of prejudice and hardship, and it honors the idea that family can be chosen as much as it is given. The story remains grounded in warmth and humanity, inviting audiences to reflect on the ways people support one another to grow, forgive, and keep promises—even when life’s plans shift in unexpected ways.