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Private Life (2018): Cast, Ratings & Plot

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Private Life is a 2018 drama directed by Tamara Jenkins, starring Paul Giamatti as Richard Grimes, Emily Robinson and Kathryn Hahn. It runs 2 hours 3 minutes. It earned 4 award nominations, including Best Director at the Spirit Awards 2019. Critics gave it 94% on Rotten Tomatoes and 83 on Metacritic, and IMDb users rate it 7.2/10.

IMDb rating
7.2/10
Rotten Tomatoes
94%
award nominations
4
Echo Score
86
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Private Life (2018) movie poster
Released
Runtime
2h 3m (123 min)
Director
Tamara Jenkins
Genre
Drama
Original language
English
Studio
Netflix
After the credits
Yes Extra scene during or after the credits
The story

What Is Private Life About?

The premise of Private Life without spoilers. The whole story is in the plot summary further down.

Rachel and Richard's marriage is strained by their struggle with infertility, leading them to explore assisted reproduction and adoption. Their journey takes an unexpected turn when they meet Sadie, a vibrant and unconventional young woman. Sadie's presence introduces both unexpected joy and considerable chaos into their lives, forcing them to confront their challenges and redefine their understanding of family and happiness.

Private Life Themes & Keywords

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Cast & crew

Private Life Cast & Characters

Paul Giamatti leads the cast as Richard Grimes, with Emily Robinson as Charlotte Grimes and Kathryn Hahn as Rachel Biegler. Directed by Tamara Jenkins; 19 actors are credited in all.

Also Starring in Private Life

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From the director

More from Tamara Jenkins

More films directed by Tamara Jenkins, best-rated first: The Savages, Slums of Beverly Hills and Family Remains.

Full filmography
Ratings

Private Life Reviews & Ratings

Critics gave Private Life 94% on Rotten Tomatoes and 83 on Metacritic, and IMDb users rate it 7.2/10. Our Echo Score gives it 86/100, strongest in character & emotion (92) and weakest in sensory experience (78).

86 /100

Private Life Echo Score Breakdown

Private Life delivers a consistently engaging and emotionally honest drama anchored by assured craftsmanship. The direction by Tamara Jenkins balances humor and poignancy with a measured pace, even if moments feel deliberately unhurried. Exceptional performances from Kathryn Hahn and Paul Giamatti deepen the film’s emotional resonance and support a narrative that addresses fertility struggles with uncommon candor. In sum, the film emerges as a thoughtfully composed and affecting portrait of a couple’s perseverance.

Our own 0–100 rating, built from five aspects: art, character, story, the sensory experience and how well a film rewatches.

  • Art & Craft 88

    In terms of direction and visual composition, Private Life exhibits meticulous attention to detail and a restrained color palette. The film’s steady editing underpins its sometimes lengthy sequences, while the bleached-white hospital interiors and understated framing reinforce its tonal balance between sterility and warmth. Overall, the art direction and cinematography cohere to support the narrative’s emotional honesty.

  • Character & Emotion 92

    When it comes to character depth and emotional resonance, the leads deliver nuanced performances that convey a history of shared joy and setback. Kathryn Hahn and Paul Giamatti embody their roles with authenticity, while supporting players provide a relatable foil to the protagonists’ struggle. The chemistry among the ensemble enhances the film’s intimate tone. Taken together, the character work forms the emotional core of the story.

  • Story & Flow 80

    In terms of plot coherence and engagement, the screenplay offers an honest depiction of fertility challenges without resorting to melodrama. The pacing is deliberate, occasionally bordering on leisurely, yet its combination of understated humor and raw vulnerability sustains interest. While not always groundbreaking in structure, the narrative remains cohesive and emotionally compelling. The story’s straightforward honesty ultimately proves its greatest strength.

  • Sensory Experience 78

    When evaluating sensory experience, the film’s visual style is marked by muted tones and careful framing that underscore its emotional themes. Ambient sound design and a subtle score complement the grounded realism of interior settings, such as stark hospital corridors. While the soundtrack remains restrained, it integrates smoothly without drawing attention away from the performances. The result is a unified sensory atmosphere that supports the drama.

  • Rewatch Factor 82

    Regarding replay value, Private Life contains layered performances and dialogue that reveal new subtleties on subsequent viewings. The careful observation of family dynamics and the interplay between humor and pathos invite further reflection. Though its deliberate pacing may not appeal to all viewers initially, the film’s nuanced craft and emotional honesty encourage repeat engagement. Overall, its lasting appeal remains strong.

Plot

Private Life Plot Summary

What happens in Private Life from start to finish, spoilers included, with a timeline of 13 key events. The opening is below; the full summary is a 4-minute read.

Spoilers ahead

Richard Grimes and Rachel Biegler are a middle-aged couple who feel the weight of infertility pressing on their life plans. After several failed attempts at artificial insemination, they decide to pursue in vitro fertilization (IVF), hoping medical science can open a doorway to the family they’ve long wanted. A troubling medical setback soon comes into play: Richard carries a blockage that stops him from producing sperm. To address this, he undergoes surgery that leaves the couple $10,000 in debt to his brother, Charlie Grimes, and to his wife, Cynthia Grimes. The financial strain is heavy, but the emotional stakes are heavier still as they navigate the rocky terrain of trying to become parents.

Full summary

The whole story of Private Life, scene by scene

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Awards

Private Life Awards & Nominations

Private Life earned 4 award nominations, including Best Director at the Spirit Awards 2019. The 4 nominations come from 2 ceremonies, the most at the Spirit Awards 2019.

4 nominations2 ceremonies

Videos

Private Life Trailers & Videos

2 videos: 2 trailers.

Her Private Life 그녀의 사생활 Trailer | PARK MIN YOUNG, KIM JAE WOOK
  • Trailer HER PRIVATE LIFE - OFFICIAL TRAILER | Kim Jae Wook, Park Min Young, Ahn Bo Hyun, Park Jin Joo
Quiz

How Well Do You Know Private Life?

10 questions about the story, each with a hint if you get stuck. Pick an answer to see whether you were right.

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What fertility treatment do Richard and Rachel decide to pursue after several failed attempts at artificial insemination?

Cars

Cars in Private Life

21 cars on screen, including the 2000 Ford Taurus and the 2016 Mercedes-Benz GLC 300 X253.

All 21 cars
  • 2000 Ford Taurus in Private Life 2000 Ford Taurus Important role
  • 2016 Mercedes-Benz GLC 300 X253 in Private Life 2016 Mercedes-Benz GLC 300 X253 Important role
  • 2001 Volkswagen Passat Wagon B5 Typ 3BG in Private Life 2001 Volkswagen Passat Wagon B5 Typ 3BG Important role
  • 1997 Ford Econoline in Private Life 1997 Ford Econoline Minor role
Details

Private Life Also Known As

15 alternative titles, including “Προσωπική Ζωή” and “프라이빗 라이프”.

Also known as
  • Προσωπική Ζωή
  • 프라이빗 라이프
  • Vida Privada
  • Mais Uma Chance
  • Частная жизнь
  • Życie prywatne
  • Приватне життя
  • Личен живот
  • חיים פרטיים
  • 非孕私生活
  • Özel Hayat
  • 不孕私生活
+3 more
  • プライベート・ライフ
  • Viața privată
  • Magánélet

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FAQ

Private Life FAQ: Cast, Awards & Runtime

Runtime, release date, director, cast, ratings, awards and post-credit scenes of Private Life, each answered in a sentence.

How long is Private Life?

Private Life runs 2 hours 3 minutes (123 minutes).

When was Private Life released?

Private Life was released on October 5, 2018.

Who directed Private Life?

Private Life was directed by Tamara Jenkins.

More films by Tamara Jenkins

Who is in the cast of Private Life?

Private Life stars Paul Giamatti as Richard Grimes, Emily Robinson as Charlotte Grimes and Kathryn Hahn as Rachel Biegler, among 19 credited actors.

How is Private Life rated?

Private Life has 7.2/10 on IMDb, 94% on Rotten Tomatoes, 83 on Metacritic and 77% on TMDB.

Was Private Life nominated for any awards?

Private Life received 4 nominations across 2 ceremonies.

Does Private Life have a post-credit scene?

Yes. Private Life has an extra scene during or after the credits, so it is worth staying seated.

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