Bully 2012

This powerful documentary sheds light on the experiences of five teenagers who have faced various forms of bullying and harassment throughout their lives. The film intricately weaves together their stories, allowing us to witness their struggles and resilience.

We begin with the tragic tale of Tyler Long, whose father shares profound insights into his son’s life, revealing early signs of bullying that Tyler encountered. Mr. Long recounts how Tyler was humiliated in the locker room, where bullies would steal his clothes, forcing him to leave disrobed. These harrowing experiences ultimately led to Tyler’s heartbreaking decision to take his own life in 2009 at just 17 years old. His mother discovered him hanging in his closet with a poignant note left on the bed.

Next, we meet Alex, a timid thirteen-year-old hesitant about returning to school due to difficulty making friends. The camera follows him to the bus stop, where he immediately becomes the target of bullying. A boy beside him on the bus threatens him violently, foreshadowing the torment that awaits him at school. Throughout the day, the film captures various instances of bullying, including a confrontation where a school official’s lackluster response leaves little hope for change.

Another perspective comes from Kelby, a young girl who bravely identifies as a lesbian. Unfortunately, her courage is met with hostility, as she describes how a group of boys callously hit her with a minivan while driving down the street. Kelby shares her deep struggles, revealing her history of self-harm and multiple suicide attempts. Her family’s support wanes as they face rejection due to her sexual orientation, and she expresses her determination not to let her bullies win, stating, “If I leave, they win.”

We also meet JaMeya, a 14-year-old honor student who, despite her academic achievements, is relentlessly bullied in Yazoo County, Mississippi. The mounting pressure drives her to a breaking point, leading her to bring her mother’s gun to school—not with the intent to harm, but to frighten her bullies into leaving her alone. Her reckless choice results in dire consequences as she is tackled by another student, and subsequently, her life takes a dark turn into the juvenile justice system.

The documentary highlights how Tyler’s parents harness their grief to address bullying in their community. They organize town meetings aimed at raising awareness and demand accountability from school officials, who often dismiss these issues as “kids will be kids.” During one of these meetings, a brave student named Devon steps forward to share his experiences, demonstrating the importance of speaking out against bullying.

As the film progresses, it reveals the tragic story of Ty Smalley, an 11-year-old boy whose life was cut short due to relentless bullying. His best friend Trey recalls the last moments he spent with Ty, emphasizing how Ty’s sadness was evident. The documentary poignantly shows Ty’s funeral, where his parents grapple with their loss while Trey reflects on his past as a bully and his transformation towards a more compassionate outlook.

Throughout the film, we see Kelby thriving in her newfound relationship, expressing that her support system of friends has been crucial to her well-being. Alex continues to endure bullying, feeling completely numb as a result of his treatments. The filmmakers show their concern for him and bring footage of the bullying to the attention of school administrators, who unfortunately maintain their indifference.

In the concluding segments, JaMeya returns home after her time in a psychiatric facility, reflecting on her journey and the changes in her environment. As Alex celebrates his last day of school amid newfound camaraderie, we also witness Kelby’s painful experience returning to school, where nothing appears to have changed.

Finally, Tyler’s family leads efforts for change by advocating against bullying through rallies and an online group titled Stand for the Silent, honoring the memories of lost children. Ty’s father stands before the crowd, delivering an emotional speech, declaring he will forever fight against bullying, reminding everyone that “[his] son will be 11 years old forever.” Through these heartfelt narratives, the documentary implores viewers to grasp the profound impact bullying has on our youth and the urgent need for collective action to create safe environments for all children.