Carrie Pilby 2017

Carrie Pilby follows a 19-year-old prodigy living alone in New York City, a mind that constantly soars above the room yet struggles to find a place where happiness can take root. She is introduced as someone who has always been the smartest person in the room, a trait that shines brilliantly but also isolates her from the ordinary rhythms of life. Born in London and raised in New York since she was twelve, Carrie has skipped three grades and graduated from Harvard at eighteen. She works as a proofreader at a law firm—something her father insists upon—though the job doesn’t fully align with her needs or passions. The city around her hums with possibility, but her days often feel steeped in quiet loneliness, a contrast to the quick wit and sharp analyses that fill her thoughts.

Her story unfolds through the patient, probing conversations with Dr. Petrov, her longtime therapist and a friend of her absent, widowed father. In their weekly sessions, she wonders aloud why happiness seems to hold so much sway in everyday life. Dr. Petrov offers a candid, gentle perspective: “There are some brilliant, unhappy people.” This line lingers as a thread that ties Carrie’s intellect to her emotional world, hinting at the complexities that have shaped her approach to relationships and self-understanding.

To coax Carrie out of her self-imposed isolation, Dr. Petrov constructs a practical to-do list designed to push her toward engagement with the wider world: Get a job, Make a friend, Get a pet, Go on a date, and Do something you enjoyed as a child. The plan is not just about ticking boxes; it’s about testing the boundaries of her comfort and inviting humanity into her carefully organized life. The list becomes a roadmap that invites rather than demands, offering Carrie a chance to redefine what it means to connect with others.

As the days unfold, Carrie’s experiments in connection lead her into a series of small, intimate adventures. She agrees to a blind date with a man who is already engaged, a situation that forces her to confront her assumptions about romance and timing. She also forms a budding friendship with a co-worker who is outwardly extroverted yet kind, a presence that helps her practice social nuance without the pressure of romance. A neighbor, known simply as “the guy next door,” catches her attention when he plays a didgeridoo in the alley behind their building, a melodic invitation to notice the world beyond her apartment. The two strike up a friendship that grows through a walk-and-talk along the city’s sidewalks, turning public spaces into spaces of shared discovery.

Throughout these encounters, brief but telling flashbacks pierce the present—the memory of an abusive relationship Carrie endured with her English professor when she was just sixteen. These scenes illuminate the tensions that have shaped her: a mind that soaks up knowledge with ease, paired with a tenderness and vulnerability that never fully matured. The contrasts are stark: remarkable intellectual insight paired with emotional fragility, a combination that explains why she can articulate complex ideas yet stumble when it comes to trusting and nurturing close ties.

As Carrie continues to fulfill the items on her therapeutic checklist, the world—its temptations, disappointments, and joys—begins to reveal itself in a new light. Her views on sex and romance, once filtered through a protective, almost clinical lens, start to loosen their grip. The ways she chooses to see people, relationships, and even happiness begin to shift, moving away from rigid analysis toward a more nuanced appreciation of human connection. The experiences on her list illuminate not just what it means to “do” things for fun or novelty, but what it means to open the door to others, to accept support, and to allow vulnerability to become a strength rather than a liability.

By the time Carrie steps further into the world, the threads of her life—her intellect, her past traumas, her longing for companionship, and her stubborn independence—intertwine into a more cohesive understanding of herself. The story does not solve every problem or erase the hurt of the past, but it presents a thoughtful journey toward greater empathy, resilience, and hope. It is a quiet, observant portrait of a young woman learning to blend genius with humanity, proving that growth can come from embracing the imperfect, messy, and wonderfully human parts of life.

Ultimately, the film presents a grounded, reflective look at a prodigy who must learn not only to think well but to feel well, to step out from the shadow of her intellect, and to trust that companionship and joy can be found—and maintained—in the everyday rhythms of the city and in the honest, imperfect connections with others. It is a patient, sometimes witty, often moving exploration of loneliness, discovery, and the delicate art of letting people into your life.