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Son in Law Plot Summary

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Becca starts college and meets Crawl

Becca, the valedictorian from a South Dakota farm town, begins college in Los Angeles after being accepted. On her first day, she meets Fred 'Crawl' Weasel, the resident advisor of her coed dorm. The meeting foreshadows a cultural clash that will shape her new college life.

Becca's first day of college Los Angeles, Becca's dorm

Becca's college transformation

Becca begins to adopt her new college life: she cuts and dyes her hair, dresses in a Californian style, and even gets a butterfly tattoo. Crawl stays close, nudging her to explore this new identity and to stay open to the experience. The dynamic between them grows as she starts to fit into campus life.

Early weeks of college Los Angeles, Becca's dorm

Thanksgiving invitation

When Becca learns Crawl has nowhere to go during breaks, she invites him to South Dakota for Thanksgiving. He accepts, hoping to join her family and see what this new life could be. The invitation sets the stage for the clash of cultures to come.

Thanksgiving break South Dakota

Arrival and mood at Becca's home

During Thanksgiving dinner, Becca's family and her boyfriend Travis react to Becca's changed appearance and Crawl's growing role in her life. Becca realizes Travis had planned to propose, and she tries to intervene, but Crawl claims he has already proposed and Becca accepted. The family mood shifts as loyalties and expectations collide.

Thanksgiving dinner Becca's family home, South Dakota

Crawl begins farming duties

Crawl shows a budding interest in farming and begins learning the daily chores. He bumbles through the tasks at first, drawing amused smiles from Walter and his farmhand Theo. Yet his persistence earns him a place in the family's routine.

During Thanksgiving visit Becca's family farm, South Dakota

Earns trust through CPR

When Walter's father has a heart attack, Crawl performs CPR and helps save him. Walter's trust in Crawl grows as he proves his steadiness and willingness to help in a crisis.

During Thanksgiving visit Becca's family farm, South Dakota

Family bonding through tech and compliments

Crawl impresses Becca's little brother Zack with his computer skills, and Zack begins to see him as a big brother. He also compliments Connie's appearance and helps to draw her out of her shell, strengthening the family bond. The ensemble starts to warm to Crawl in a surprisingly rapid shift.

During Thanksgiving visit Becca's family home, South Dakota

Tracy arrives and the bachelor party invite

While shopping for clothes, Crawl meets Becca's friend Tracy. Travis apologizes to Crawl for hitting him and invites him to his bachelor party, linking Crawl to the wedding plans in Becca's life.

During Thanksgiving visit South Dakota

The morning after and the wedding plan fallout

The next morning, Becca finds Crawl and Tracy waking up in the barn and furiously calls off the wedding. Crawl and Tracy cannot remember what happened, leaving Becca to piece together what went wrong.

The morning after the bachelor party Barn, Becca's family property, South Dakota

Crawl heads back to Los Angeles

Crawl leaves to head back to Los Angeles, signaling the end of his stay in South Dakota. Travis, who had been seeing Tracy on the side, berates her for the previous night's behavior.

After the morning after incident South Dakota to Los Angeles

Thanksgiving dinner confrontation and confession

Tracy visits the Warner house to confront Travis and Theo during Thanksgiving dinner. Theo confesses that they drugged Becca and Crawl and set them up in the barn.

Thanksgiving dinner Warner house, South Dakota

Resolution and a cautious proposal horizon

Walter fires Theo. Becca tries to speak the truth about Crawl's proposal, but Crawl stops her, saying they have not yet decided on a wedding date and need to wait. He hints that he intends to legitimately propose to Becca and have a proper relationship that the Warners will respect.

End of Thanksgiving dinner Warner house, South Dakota

Son in Law Characters

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Rebecca 'Becca' Warner (Carla Gugino)

An ambitious valedictorian from a rural South Dakota town who moves to LA for college. She evolves in style and confidence, learning to balance tradition with independence. Her journey centers on identity, belonging, and choosing a partner who respects her growth.

🎓 Protagonist 🌱 Growth 💃 Style evolution

Fred 'Crawl' Weasel (Pauly Shore)

The quirky resident advisor who arrives in Becca's life with a mix of humor and resourcefulness. He gradually proves himself capable—learning farming, earning trust, and becoming a stabilizing force for the family.

😂 Comic relief 🧭 Adaptable 🧑‍🌾 Farmer-in-training

Walter Warner (Lane Smith)

Becca's cautious father who values family tradition but comes to respect Crawl through tough moments, including CPR that saves his father. His protective instincts drive much of the family dynamics.

👨‍👩‍👧 Family man 🧭 Skeptical at first 💪 Strong

Connie Warner (Cindy Pickett)

Becca's mother, initially wary of Crawls' unconventional ways, who gradually opens up and supports Becca's choices. She embodies warmth and a desire for family harmony.

👩‍👧‍👦 Matriarch 💬 Supportive 🫂 Compassionate

Theo (Dennis Burkley)

The farmhand whose actions trigger conflict at Thanksgiving; later exposed and dismissed. His decisions illustrate the imperfect, flawed choices people make within close-knit communities.

🏭 Working-class ⚖️ Consequences 🤝 Outsider complicator

Travis (Patrick Renna)

Becca's boyfriend who appears interested in marriage, becomes part of the night’s confusing events, and faces the consequences of the couple's choices.

💑 Romantic interest 🧭 Conflicted 🥊 Tense

Tracy (Tiffani Thiessen)

Becca's friend who becomes entangled in the bachelor party aftermath; her actions contribute to the night's chaos and the revelation of events.

🕺 Party catalyst 🧩 Complicating factor 🗺️ Catalyst

Son in Law Settings

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Location

South Dakota, Los Angeles

Becca's hometown is a small South Dakota farming community with close-knit families and traditional values. The story shifts to a Los Angeles college campus, a busy urban setting full of new social dynamics. The Thanksgiving visit then contrasts these locales, underscoring the cultural clash Becca navigates.

🌾 Rural town 🏙️ Urban college city

Son in Law Themes

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Culture clash

Becca's rural upbringing collides with the fast-paced, liberal culture of a Los Angeles college. Crawl acts as a bridge between these worlds, guiding Becca toward new freedoms while challenging her sense of belonging. The film uses humor and awkward moments to highlight misunderstandings and personal growth.

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Romance & family

Becca's romantic entanglement with Crawl intersects with her family's expectations during Thanksgiving. Crawl's earnest, if imperfect, attempts to fit into farm life test the boundaries of acceptance and loyalty. The story tracks how relationships must adapt to cultural differences to form a lasting bond.

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Deception & trust

A subplot involves drugging and manipulation that tests Becca and Crawl's trust in each other. As truth emerges, alliances shift and accountability becomes crucial. The resolution hinges on open communication and choosing partners who respect each other's growth.

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